I think it's not fair because is based on "first come, first serve". As Zmeus pointed out, occupying a castle with one player can be interpreted as
blocking the castle.
The game mechanics not kick out of the game the player who occupy a castle, just demote him as king.
Is up to that player to call RL or ingame friends and have 5 warriors in the nation, is up to his leadership skills to build up a tribe, in the same way things worked in RL.
About role-play as king of 1 member tribe, be serious, please! Not only as king you can have a role-play, it's up to everybody imagination and skill, not about having or not a title. I remember that I had my most productive period in RP as simple knight. After that I was too busy to write good stories about my character.
Do not throw the arrow which will return against you!